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100 1  Siegel, Daniel J.,|d1957-|eauthor. 
245 14 The power of showing up :|bhow parental presence shapes 
       who our kids become and how their brains get wired /
       |cDaniel J. Siegel, M.D., Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D. 
250    First edition. 
263    2001 
264  1 New York :|bBallantine Books,|c[2020] 
264  4 |c©2020 
300    xiv, 238 pages :|billustrations ;|c25 cm 
336    text|btxt|2rdacontent 
337    unmediated|bn|2rdamedia 
338    volume|bnc|2rdacarrier 
505 0  What it means to show up -- Why do some parents show up, 
       while others don't? : an introduction to attachment 
       science -- Beyond helmets and kneepads : helping your 
       child feel SAFE -- The value of being known : helping your
       child feel SEEN -- Presence joins us as part of a calming 
       whole : helping your kids feel SOOTHED -- Putting all the 
       S's together : helping your kids feel SECURE -- Conclusion
       : From the playground to the dorm room : a look into the 
       future. 
520    "One of the very best scientific predictors for how any 
       child turns out--in terms of happiness, academic success, 
       leadership skills, and meaningful relationships--is 
       whether at least one adult in their life has consistently 
       shown up for them. In an age of scheduling demands and 
       digital distractions, this might sound like a tall order. 
       But as bestselling authors Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne 
       Bryson reassuringly explain, showing up doesn't take a lot
       of time, energy, or money. Instead, showing up means 
       offering a quality of presence. And it's simple to provide
       once you understand the four building blocks of a child's 
       healthy development. Every child needs to feel what Siegel
       and Bryson call the Four S's: Safe: We can't always 
       insulate a child from injury or hurt feelings. But when we
       give a child a sense of safe harbor, she will be able to 
       take the needed risks for growth and change. Seen: Truly 
       seeing a child means we pay attention to his emotions--
       both the positive and the negative--and strive to attune 
       to what's happening in his mind beneath his behavior. 
       Soothed: Soothing isn't about providing a life of ease, 
       but instead teaching your child how to cope when life gets
       hard, and showing him that you'll be there with him along 
       the way. Secure: When you reliably provide safety, focus 
       on seeing her, and soothe her in times of need, she will 
       trust in a feeling of secure attachment. And thrive! Based
       on the latest brain and attachment research, The Power of 
       Showing Up shares stories, scripts, simple strategies, 
       illustrations and tips for honoring the Four S's 
       effectively in all kinds of situations--when our kids are 
       struggling or when they are enjoying success; when we are 
       consoling, disciplining, or arguing with them; and even 
       when we are apologizing for the times we don't show up for
       them. Demonstrating that mistakes and missteps are 
       reparable and that it's never too late to mend broken 
       trust, this is a powerful guide to cultivating your 
       child's healthy emotional landscape"--|cProvided by 
       publisher. 
650  0 Parenting|xPsychological aspects. 
650  0 Parent and child|xPsychological aspects. 
650  7 FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Parenting / General.|2bisacsh 
650  7 PSYCHOLOGY / Developmental / Child.|2bisacsh 
650  7 PSYCHOLOGY / Cognitive Neuroscience & Cognitive 
       Neuropsychology.|2bisacsh 
700 1  Bryson, Tina Payne,|eauthor. 
776 08 |iOnline version:|aSiegel, M.D., Daniel J.,|tThe power of 
       showing up|dNew York : Ballantine Books, 2020.
       |z9781524797720|w(DLC)  2019034766 
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